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Wednesday, April 20, 2005

Leadership Lessons from Pope John Paul II

I found this article today and enjoyed it tremendously. I hope you do, too. -- Nicole

"Heroes are rebels with a cause. Rebels because they challenge the traditional ways of thinking and refuse to follow the herd. They have a cause, a vision, that's larger than life."--- Sharif Khan, author of Psychology of the Hero Soul
From a small-town Polish boy born to a retired army officer to become Pope; from a hard life in Nazi occupied Poland, his mother dead of kidney and heart failure, an older brother dead from scarlet fever, to become quite possibly "man of the century." How did such an unlikely candidate for the head of the Roman Catholic Church rise so quickly to such prominence? What leadership lessons can we learn from this global spiritual leader who so moved the world? Here is a brief timeline snap-shot of Karol Josef Wojtyla's exemplary leadership:

Knowledge
1958: Pope Pius XII names Wojtyla auxiliary bishop of Krakow. By this time, Wojtyla was a professor of ethics and had two doctorate degrees; he had studied theology in clandestine during the oppressive Nazi occupation of Poland.
Leadership lesson: leaders are readers. Specialized knowledge is key to leadership along with general studies. While Wojtyla had two doctorates in his field, he also studied philosophy and literature and was also a playwright and a poet. If you were to take an hour-a-day reading up in your field and applying the knowledge, within a period of five years you would become an 'expert' within your field. People are hungering and thirsting for a leader with knowledge and experience.
In Wojtyla's case, he took the time to gain knowledge of the world, himself, and beyond. As a chaplain for university students in Krakow, he used to go on frequent camping and kayaking trips and offered counseling and mentorship to the students. On these excursions, he would usually take an hour or more to be alone by himself to reflect, read, and pray. These moments of solitude gave him a strong internal compass and knowledge of self required of all great leaders.

Humility
1978: Elected Pope John Paul II becoming the 264th pope and first non-Italian pope in 456 years; refuses formal papal coronation in favor of a simple inauguration ceremony and chooses not to use the royal plural "We" referring to himself plainly as "I".
Wojtyla was not impressed by the trappings of power and its symbols and made that clear from the day he was elected Pope. He had a very simple, plain, and honest way of communicating that endeared people to him. He exemplified the servant-leader role by embodying one of the titles of the Pope: Servus Servorum Dei (Servant of the Servants of God).
Leadership lesson: leaders are humble. We can learn from Wojtyla's example by not isolating ourselves in the corner office or ivory tower with each successive promotion, hiding behind closed doors and a sea of fancy titles, diplomas, awards, certificates, and press-clippings. Like Wojtyla, we can make ourselves available to our people with open doors, seeking to understand and encouraging dialogue. Leadership by walking around and talking to people and listening to their needs earns respect and trust.

Heart
1979: Visits his homeland, Poland, for the first time as Pope and speaks to his people, inspiring Solidarity, the first independent labor movement in the Soviet bloc.
Risking his life against the totalitarian Communist Regime in Poland, Wojtyla returned to his homeland and did not speak in the typical, official 'visiting dignitary' tone. He spoke from his heart, from the gut, soul-to-soul - in their language. The people of Poland saw themselves reflected in him; he encouraged them to not crawl like animals but walk tall and 'be not afraid.' The crowd went wild and a flame of rebellion and counter-revolution was lit in the collective consciousness of the Polish people, sparking the Solidarity movement for independence and freedom that eventually toppled the Communist Regime.
Leadership lesson: leaders have heart. Intellect is not enough; both head and heart have to be married. If you want to win over people, risk letting down your guard and speak from the heart. The leader that speaks from the heart almost always wins over reason alone.

Forgiveness
1983: Meets with assassin Ali Agca in prison.
Just two years after the assassination attempt on his life by gunman, Mehmet Ali Agca, and several months of painful recovery, the Pope visited Agca in prison and offered forgiveness. (Much later, in 2000, the Italian government granted clemency to Agca, on the Pope's request).
Leadership lesson: leaders are willing to forgive. We are all fallible human beings that make mistakes. The mark of a true leader is his or her willingness to forgive. It's also a smart leadership strategy in the long-term. While there's no excuse to keep someone who consistently fails to learn from their mistakes, the boss that fires an employee for making a big mistake is often mistaken for doing so. After all, there's always the risk that the next person hired could potentially make the same disastrous mistake. But by offering forgiveness to the person that errs, that person is unlikely to repeat that same mistake, and will most likely remain fiercely loyal to you.

Responsibility 2000: Offers a day of apology for sins committed by members of the Catholic Church over the centuries; visits Israel and pays homage to the victims of the Holocaust.
Wojtyla was the first pope to visit the Auschwitz concentration camp in Poland in 1979, and later in 2000, he visited Jerusalem's Yad Vashem in remembrance of the six million Jews who died in the Holocaust, praying for reconciliation between Christians and Jews and apologizing for the sin of anti-Semitism by Christians.
The day that former U.S. President, John F. Kennedy, took full responsibility for the Bay of Pigs fiasco, was the day he became leader. The day that Wojtyla apologized and took responsibility for the sins of anti-Semitism committed by Christians, was the day he became a truly respected global leader.
Leadership lesson: leaders take full responsibility for their organization. Blaming and complaining is the mark of a loser. We can make excuses or we can make progress - but we certainly can't do both. To be a leader, you must take full responsibility for your actions, your team, and ultimately the whole organization or cause you lead.

Uncommon Leadership
1982 - 2003: Receives PLO leader Arafat; Meets Gorbachev as first pope to meet with a Kremlin Chief; visits Cuba and meets with Castro; becomes first pope in history to enter a mosque.
Despite criticism from many corners on the controversial issues he supported, Wojtyla was not one to ever back down. He stood for what he believed in and had the courage of convictions. As a leader, he was tough but flexible. His flexibility allowed him to meet famous, and infamous, world leaders and address difficult issues that made him unpopular in certain circles. But he also had the inner toughness and steely resolve to break down walls and foster reconciliation. As Pope and head of the Roman Catholic Church he knew his role was to unify the Church while serving as an apostle of justice and peace. He stood his ground and never wavered, even if it meant alienation.
Leadership lesson: leaders stand for what they believe in. Leadership is not about winning a popularity contest. Stand up for what you believe in. Be strong and be firm. A divided mind is weak; a united mind, clear and singular in purpose, is powerful beyond measure.

Legacy: Rebel with a Cause
1920 - 2005: A legacy of leadership.
Pope John Paul II was a rebel with a cause. A champion of human worth and dignity, a freedom fighter, a torch bearer for social justice, he left a lasting legacy of leadership and moral example that the world can follow. Asked once, if he feared retaliation from government officials, he replied (according to biographer George Weigel), "I'm not afraid of them. They are afraid of me." Indeed, he relayed a message to the world that will echo through eternity: "Be not afraid!"


Copyright © 2005 by Sharif Khan
Fair-use timeline sources taken from Wikipedia, Holy See Religion News Service, CNN Biography, and AP/McClatchy Interactive.

---------------------------------------------------------------------Sharif Khan is a speaker, writer, coach, and author of Psychology of the Hero Soul, an inspirational book on awakening the hero within and developing people's leadership potential. For more information, visit: http://www.herosoul.com. Khan can be reached directly at Tel: 416-417-1259 or Email: mailto:sharif@herosoul.com

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Monday, April 18, 2005

Overwhelmed? Fears? What's can I do to help?

We are 100 days into 2005.

Take time today to reassess the last 100 days in 2005 - what worked, what didn't. How can you improve the way you are doing things?

Albert Einstein stated the following definition of insanity

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
Are you doing the same things repeatedly and expecting different results? Today, take time to see how you can improve upon what you are doing -- and achieve amazing results.

Personally, I'm going to try to set up 'hours' or days where I work on different projects. I don't know if it'll work or if I'll be able to stick to it right away, but it's almost summertime and I'm not going to miss out on time with my children because I'm managing my time poorly. :) Stop by the ShowMomTheMoney Network and share your time management tips.

In this issue...
Help! I'm overwhelmed. Where do I start?
Are Doubts and Fears Holding You Back?

Please forward this to a friend!
Nicole Dean, owner

Question #1 - Help! I'm overwhelmed! Where do I start?
Question: I'm a new WAHM. I've been to ShowMomTheMoney and have to say it's pretty overwhelming. Where do I start?
Response: Hi. This is a very common difficulty. The amount of information available to WAHMs is mind-boggling. So, where do you start?
I invite you to sign up for my free ecourse - ShowMomTheMoney 101. Every few days, you'll receive an email guiding you to another section of the site, explaining issues such as
* Marketing Materials and What to do With Them
* Blogs
* Press Releases
* Networking
To sign up, simply send a blank email to newtoonlinebiz@aweber.com and watch for your confirmation email. I hope this helps introduce the information into bite-sized pieces for you. Have a friend take the course with you! And, do let me know what was helpful and what was confusing so I can improve upon this ecourse for the future!

Question #2 - Fears and Doubts in Business
Question: I know I question myself daily -Why am I not getting the results I want. Is it just me?
Response: Hi! Here's an article that I found helpful. I hope you enjoy it, too!
Top 10 Fears in Business and Marketing
I also started a personal growth section of the site and will be adding to it in the coming weeks. Please check back soon to see it.

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Monday, April 11, 2005

Book-Keeping & Affiliate Programs

Happy Monday, everyone. Those in my Ryze network know that we had a major lightening storm last week and lost many of our electronic appliances. The count is now eight (yes, eight) electrical devices that are kaplooey. It's a great reminder to back up your work often. It could have been a lot worse than a stove, garage door opener, couple of phones, stereo, etc. I could have lost my databases. ((shudder))
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Question #1 - Keeping Records and Book-keeping.
This is my question to all of you. Do you struggle with record-keeping? I spent last weekend doing taxes, since I put it off as long as possible. Am I the biggest procrastinator in this group?
Every year, I'm learning to keep better records. My first year in Direct Sales, I kept a shoebox. Now I am using QuickBooks Simple Start Edition and I love it, but it looks like I'll have to upgrade to QuickBooks Basic 2005 to keep track of all my crazy stuff. With a little help from some more organized friends, and my husband's grumbling at tax time, I'm actually getting more organized. I really dragged my feet getting a program to help me along, and wish I had done it sooner.

Help me gather the best tools for book-keeping. Drop me an email and let me know what you love to use for book-keeping or stop by the ShowMomTheMoney Network at Ryze and share your recommendations there. I'll add them to ShowMomTheMoney website to help other WAHMs.
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Question #2 - What are Affiliate Programs?
If you own your own site, or even it you have a newsletter or blog, affiliate programs can bring in a little bit more money. You recommend your favorite products to your readers and clients anyway, right? Well, you can be rewarded by the company for your recommendations, if they result in a sale.

Learn more about free affiliate programs

Note: Remember that your recommendation is your word and your reputation. Test the products yourself or research them thoroughly before recommending them. :)
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Please forward this to a friend.Nicole Dean, owner

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Child Abuse Prevention Month

Did you know that April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month? Since the first proclamation in 1983, the month of April has been used to show active support of our families and to take a stand against the heartache and tragedy of child abuse and neglect.

The Blue Ribbon campaign was started by a grandmother whose grandson was the victim of fatal child abuse...she chose the color blue to represent the color of his bruises, but the color blue represents so much more. To me, it represents belonging and believing, it represents something better...our hope and our help to truly make this a Blue Ribbon World for all of our children.

Want to help? Here's something to do...On April 15th--Please Dress in Blue. Show our children that they are a priority. Join myself and others around the country---children, parents, schools and businesses---to show our ongoing support for happy childhoods and bright futures. Dress all in blue, tie blue ribbons where people can see them, and wear a blue ribbon on April 15th, and all month or all year long. Involve your children! Explain to them why you and your family will be wearing blue, have them help you make blue ribbons for family and friends to wear.

Listen with your heart to the small voice of a child. Nurture a child, be an advocate, become educated and involved in legislative children's issues, reach out to your neighbors, and always report signs of abuse and neglect to the authorities. Together we can make this a Blue Ribbon world for our children. For more information on child abuse and neglect, please visit http://www.preventchildabuse.com .

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Monday, April 04, 2005

Press Releases, Choosing a Business & Spring Cleaning

Happy Monday, everyone! Yesterday we took the puppy to the park on the Bayou and had a picnic lunch. Sitting in the grass, watching the kids run around was all I needed to lift my spirits. It reminded me how important it is for Sunday to be Family Day. It's those little things you look forward to every week, or every year that become the cherished traditions in our families. Cheers to Family! :)


Ready to learn and take a step closer to have a very successful year in Business and at Home? Here's what we're covering today...



  • Question 1: What are my options to become a WAHM?

  • Free Motivational CD - Is your Greatness Being Held Hostage?

  • Questions 2: What is a press release?

  • Spring Cleaning!

  • Preschool Fun: Bugs, Dinosaurs and Earth Day


Please forward this to a friend!

Nicole Dean, owner


Question #1 - What type of business will work best for me?
Kelly McCausey and I discuss the options available for Moms and the pros and cons of each. If you know any Moms who would love to be work from home, have them listen to our discussion on WAHMTalkRadio.com.

Free CD
I requested this Free CDand it helped me rethink my daily strategies and long terms goals and how I want to achieve them. Will you spend 2005 THINKING about achieving your goals or will you actually take the steps to Achieve them?
Stop Holding Your Greatness Hostage. Discover the Secrets To Unleashing Your Greatness And Becoming Financially Free This Year! click here

Question #2 - Press Release 101
Question: Here is where my ignorance for marketing will show. Once I have a press release written, where do I send it etc to get coverage? Pattihttp://www.pattibears.com/

Hi Patti. I've got you covered.
Press Releases - Why pay for an ad in the newspaper when you can have an entire article promoting your website?
65 Reasons to Send Out a Press Release
How To Write a Press Release That Editors Will Publish
Press Release Tutorial - I recommend this free press release tutorial.
The Online Mentoring at MomsMasterminds offers an entire Press Release Course for free, included with the membership. ;)

And to answer your question, one of the places to send your press release would be http://www.prweb.com/. And, I also recommend sending a customized version to your local press. For instance, when I won the WAHM Talk Radio MVP award, Kelly McCausey sent out a major press release through PRWeb. In addition, I sent a different version of the sampe press release to my hometown newspaper, incorporating some information about the year I graduated from the Local High School and information about my parents. (Because it's a Small town newspaper, I knew that would be of interest to many residents.) I also sent a third version to my local newspapers in the town I live in now, that said "Local Resident Awarded Work at Home Mom Award". I did get interview requests from both of the personalized versions, so I feel they were worth it, even though they took a bit more time. ;)

It's Spring Cleaning Time!
Cheryl's Miller, our organizational expert, asks us "How Much Stuff is Enough?"

Brand new April Crafts & Activities for Kids
Dinosaur Activities for Kids

Insects and Bug Activities for Kids

Earth Day Activities for Kids

Don't miss: free $25 gift for kids

Have a great week everyone!

Nicole

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